29 Jan 2018

New year's shopping I. (try on) // Dada's fashion

Hi!

So, I am back. Sitting in my room, smiling at my screen and being ill. It had to come, however I have been fighting for quite a long time so I do not take it too seriously. As long I can work from home and get important done, I am OK.

Today's post is really interesting since it is going to show you how much you can change in being a little "shopaholic".

I used to be a small maniac who loved shopping, clothes and having a wardrobe full of clothes I had never worn. I enjoyed the feeling when I paid for a dress, wear it for once (sometimes not even once) and found out that it did not suit me or I did not feel good in it or it had a different reason why I should have never bought it.
And then I have started to earn my own money. For the first few months I spent everything what I earned. To be honest, my salary has never been very poor, I could live a proper life and even be able to save something. But I did not save anything. I wanted to buy this and that, have everything what rich-looking people have and prove myself I can look rich and then also happy in that way.
Come on, I should have slapped myself. 
Four years has passed and I am not that girl with a lot of clothes. Now, I do not have to solve that common problem which many girls/women have. I know exactly what I want to wear in the morning and I never feel the powerlessness of not having anything to wear.

There were sales in shops. And I decided to buy something for myself. I became to be in a shopping mall Aréna in Trnava (western Slovakia) with Simonka (my #sisterfromanothermother). I really wanted to go everywhere, I am not gonna lie. But we were smart (haha, I know) and decided to go just to one shop and have the ability to choose something just there, nowhere else. Believe me, this tactic helps a lot. Since there is a big shop Mohito and we both really like this brand, we made a quick agreement to go in there.

The sales were not that big, the sellouts were just starting. But I said to myself if I found the things I needed and also wanted, I would just buy them.
And yes, I was lucky as I have not been in years when we take in a count clothes shopping.

THE SWEATER.

This was actually the main reason of going there. To find a sweater which will be bigger than me, warmer than a tea and cozier than a blanket. There was nothing I liked in the beginning. I was almost thinking to go to another shop but then I saw this one (just the last one for me). I so enjoy wearing this huge baby blue blanket :-)

THE DOTS DRESS
This dress was so cute that I had to try it. My first thought "It is just how I do want to look like in  a dress". The first reaction of Simonka was "Aren't they too short?"
Honestly, they are. What, believed me,  I hadn´t realised before she said so. And even then, I did not think it was that short. You see, the material is just falling down because it is heavy. It did surprise me how heavy this dress was. So I gave it a chance. And how great I did! I feel very well while wearing it, almost like I wear nothing. Yes, it is that comfortable.
Have a look at the photos. Is the dress too short? What do you say? I wear it with black tights and do not feel like anybody could have a chance to see what should stay hidden.

And one more point. I did not want to post the photos where I am wearing the dots dress below. When I looked at it, the first thing I saw was the scars on my legs. 
"What will people think?" went through my mind. And then I realised, those are my legs and whatever happened to them or will happen to them, they are still mine and I should not feel the shame. What happened to me was not my fault and especially because of that, I should be able to live with it without everyday's thinking how my body looks like. Once, I will do that automatically.

THE CHARLIE HARPER DRESS
Tell me honestly - if this is not Charlie Harper style, than nothing is his style :-)
I have always wanted a shirt which would be in that kind of style, especially in dark versus light colours. I have not found anything like that yet. But I found this dress which is even more original. I have never seen any dress like this on anybody and that is exactly what I like to wear. I do like a lot of ongoing trends but when I see a lot of people wear something similar or even the same,  I cannot wear it as well. That is just not me, I feel like I am cheating my own personal style. But I do not want  to say that it is bad if somebody is doing that. Not at all, at least I can look on it :-)
This dress is longer I want to say. And again, the dress is really heavy, you would be surprised. And the feeling when I wear it, oh, so comfortable. I would like to even sleep in that.
You might be thinking "that is not much shopping" and you are right. It is not but these three pieces of clothes made me more happy and satisfied than my shopping used to make me in the past.

I will have another post about the New Year's sales since I went to have a look on some stuff I needed in Prague. So you will see a bit more of what kind of clothes has made me really happy :-)

And what about you and shopping in new year's sales? Do you buy a lot of clothes? Or anything else?

Let's meet here the next time <3 Serusky

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